This plan is organized around the six-month path suggested on page 74 of the Refuge Recovery book. You can follow it exactly or use it as a starting point to build your own program of recovery.
- Dharma Friends: Combine with the Dharma Buddies Meeting Guide as a checklist of discussion each week with your Dharma friend.
- Individuals: Read the website or book and listen to Dharma talks.
- Meetings: Use the topic and reading pairings for weekly discussions.
- Pick Two/Three: There are more resources listed than could be accessed in a week. Choose the ones that apply to your path. You can always return later.
- Pace of the Inventory:
- Go faster: Focus more on the questions; answering more of them than listed for the week
- Go more slowly: Focus more on teachings and practice; answering fewer questions each week
Introduction
Week 1
Refuge Recovery Website, Identifying Harmful Behavior
- Meditate: Compassion, Breath | Write: Identify and Rank Harmful Behaviors
- Read: RR Website About RR Website Resources | Listen: 4 Noble Truths 8 Fold Path 4 Foundations Heart Practices
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 2
Refuge Recovery Book, Ranking Harmful Behavior
- Meditate: Body, Lovingkindness | Write: Which behaviors are causing the most harm in your life?
- Read: Preface, Introduction, Process | Listen: Addiction, Recovery, Renunciation, Refuge
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
1st Truth Inventory
Week 3
- Meditate: Feeling Tone, Joy | Write: Questions 1, 2, 3
- Read: Chapter 1, Addiction Causes Suffering | Listen: Craving, Dukkha, Precepts, First Truth
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 4
- Meditate: Thought, Tonglen | Write: Questions 4, 5, 6
- Read: Chapter 2, The Cause of Addiction | Listen: Honesty, Self-Harshness, Dukkha, Second Truth
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 5
- Meditate: Awareness, Forgiveness | Write: Questions 7, 8, 9
- Read: Chapter 3, Recovery is Possible | Listen: Anger, Fear, Karma, Precepts, Third Truth, Hope
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 6
- Meditate: Foundations, Metta | Write: Questions 10, 11, 12
- Read: Chapter 4, The Path to Recovery | Listen: Self, Community, Wise, Speech
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 7
- Meditate: Standing, Effort | Write: Questions 13, 14, 15
- Read: Chapter 5, Understanding | Listen: Understanding, Anatta, Letting go, Impermanence, Forgiveness
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 8
- Meditate: Listening, Balance | Write: Questions 16, 17, 18
- Read: Chapter 6, Intention | Listen: Intention, Compassion, Loving kindness, Forgiveness
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 9
- Meditate: Mindfulness, Forgiveness | Write: Questions 19, 20, 21
- Read: Chapter 7, Communication/Community | Listen: Communication, Community, Honesty, Humility
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 10
- Meditate Pain, Compassion | Write: Questions 22, 23, 24
- Read: Chapter 8, Action / Engagement | Listen: Self Improvement, Forgiveness, Appreciation, Generosity
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 11
- Meditate: Mindfulness, Lovingkindness | Write: Questions 25, 26, 27
- Read: Chapter 9, Livelihood / Service | Listen:Why, Faith, Impermanence, Intention, Livelihood
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 12
- Meditate: Awareness, Joy Write: Questions 28, 29, 30
- Read: Chapter 10, Effort | Listen: Relationships, Sex, Practice, Effort, Skill, Habit
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 13
- Meditate: Breath, Tonglen | Write: Question 31, 32
- Read: Chapter 11, Mindfulness Meditation | Listen: Practice, Refuge, Foundation, Mindful, Body, Danger, Emotion
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 14
- Meditate: Body, Forgiveness | Write: Questions 33, 34
- Read: Chapter 12, Concentration Meditation | Listen: Loss, Compassion, Heart, Lovingkindness
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Second Truth Inventory
Week 15
- Meditate: Feeling Tone; Balance | Write: Questions 1, 2
- Read: Chapter 13, The Path to Heartfulness | Listen: Suffering, Impermanence, Karma, Heart
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 16
- Meditate: Thought, Divine Abodes | Write: Questions 3, 4
- Read: Chapter 14, Breaking the Addiction | Listen: Dukkha, Attachment
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 17
- Meditate Kind Awareness, Compassion | Write: Questions 5 ,6
- Read: Lynne | Listen: Humility, Despair, Self, Sangha, Refuge
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 18
- Meditate: Foundations, Lovingkindness | Write: Questions 7, 8
- Read: Jordan Listen: Happiness, Body, Confidence, Impermanence
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 19
Week 20
- Meditate: Standing, Tonglen | Write: Questions 11, 12
- Read: Mary | Listen: Perfectionism, Relationship, Refuge, Pain
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 21
- Meditate: Mindful, Forgiveness | Write: Questions 13, 14
- Read: Pablo | Listen: Practice, Trauma, Violence, Doubt
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 22
- Meditate: Pain, Divine Abodes | Write: Questions 15, 16
- Read: Enrique | Listen: Faith, Anatta, Path, Willingness
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 23
- Meditate: Breath, Balance | Write: Questions 17, 18
- Read: Ruth Ann | Listen: Loss, Sex, Forgiveness, Anatta
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Week 24
- Meditate: Standing, All Meditations | Write: Question 19
- Read: Read Chapter 5, Understanding | Listen: Understanding, Anatta, Letting go, Impermanence, Forgiveness
- Discuss with your Dharma Friend | Meet, Volunteer: RR Meetings Online and Nearby
Recap
This pace will accomplish the program laid out on Page 74 of the Refuge Recovery Book in about six months.
You will begin to build a daily practice and gain experience with different meditations.
- Read and study the Refuge Recovery text
- Finish the First and Second Truth Inventories
In the next six months, follow the plan as outlined on Page 74 of the Refuge Recovery text, adding:
- Complete the 3rd Truth Inventory
- Continue to meet with your Dharma Friend
- If appropriate, start the practice of making amends
- If appropriate, start the practice of being a Dharma friend to newcomers